She called me trashy … and it was exactly what I needed. Patterns are haaaaaard! Men are harder 🫣 I was working HARD to break a pattern of toxicity in my life surrounding .. you guessed it. I had a deep convo with my best friend about it and I…

How to Solve Anything … It’s not really about what you’re doing (or aren’t doing). Because behavior without intention has no merit. Acting out of fear and scarcity has its effects, as everything does. One of those being ‘more of the same’. Think about it .. how often do you…

They say … I’ve created a list of barf worthy things that “they say” are true but I have found to actually NOT be true and on top of that to actually be toxic to my fragile, cynical mind. Money can’t buy happiness. I know for a fact that this…

In a society that spends so much time and energy identifying with others, comparing ourselves with others, being validated by others, and looking to anything outside of ourselves for approval … it is massively difficult to see the truth in our shadows. …

Human Design Edition After watching way too much of the Johnny Depp defamation case I was intrigued with Amber Heard and decided to run her Human Design chart. Once I did, a little voice in my head said, “Tinder Swindler and Anna Delvey” so I ran those too and WOW…

AKA — self sabotage Self sabotage is such a fun topic, am I right? All the reasons why I ruin my own life and break my own heart. I joke, but the truth is that self sabotage is a learned behavior. It is something of a trauma response that we…

You want to be comfy I’m going to write each and every day for the next 679 days and I will likely get some traction, make some cash, maybe a viral article, and become one of the Kardashian sisters. I got to thinking about goals and projects one day because…

What do others do when this happens? I’m no stranger to negative reviews or comments, but I also don’t look often on Amazon. Because when I do read them, they STING. I guess whenever you bare your soul and are courageous enough to put your work out there into the…

And bled me dry ((This is MY story/perspective/humorous take on it all … if you suffer from mental illness, please seek professional help. I am not a doctor nor am I advising you to do ANYTHING that I did)). Over the last 10 years, I’ve had three therapists tell me…